There is much reason why some marriage doesn’t end up well. As the saying goes, it takes two to tango. People might find some indifferences all along. And it could lead to a toxic relationship. As an individual, it is human nature to avoid pain, and if the marriage is causing you pain, then maybe it is time to save yourself and leave the union. Divorce is a very personal and painful process that one has to go through. It requires the courage to go through that process. The divorce is usually processed by family law attorneys and touches several issues, like division of properties up to the custody of the child. It’s crucial to hire a lawyer who is experienced at your financial and other concerns in a divorce.
Here are several grounds for divorce:
Adultery is where your husband or wife has had sexual intercourse with someone else of the opposite sex that is not their legal spouse. If you choose to file for divorce on this basis, you need to file it within six months of knowledge of cheating. However, you cannot refer to adultery as a ground if you stayed and lived together as a couple for six months after you found out about the cheating because it means that there is an act of condonation.
Only the aggrieved party can file for this kind of petition. However, if you both parties had sexual relationships with other people, both husband or wife can file for divorce.
There are necessarily two well-defined circumstances where the ground of unreasonable behavior is given in a divorce petition: firstly where irrational behavior has actually occurred – and secondly where none of the other grounds for divorce applies. Although unreasonable behavior can expose serious accusations, like domestic violence, drunkenness, or addiction, it also includes vague issues such as lack of support in maintaining a household. It should be noticed that, if there is a change of behavior among husband and wife, unreasonable behavior can be used. Similarly, if your spouse has a sexual relationship with a same-sex, it is not considered as adultery but can be regarded as unreasonable behavior.
Desertion or Abandonment
If your spouse left you, without your agreement or a good reason and to end the relationship, it may be possible to use the ground of desertion when filing for divorce. They must have deserted you for over two years within the last two and a half years, and you can have lived together for up to six months during this period.
Physical and Emotional Abuse
There are many kinds of abuse. Domestic violence of any sort is a reason for divorce. It includes emotional, physical, and psychological, and economic abuse. Threatening behavior and language can also be considered as abuse.
There are many reasons why you and your partner may decide to get a premarital agreement or a “prenup”. The biggest questions many couples ask is why they need to pay for A lawyer for a prenuptial agreement, and they already trust one another. A lawyer will only add to the costs of getting the prenup. However, there are numerous reasons why a lawyer may be important and perhaps crucial in your marital status. The fact is that you do not require just one lawyer. You require two. One to represent you and the other for your mate.
The first reason is that you will need your prenup to be as clear and binding as possible. Doing the prenups yourselves may get confusing because many times you have no idea what legal terms are used and your simple terms are just very confusing. Terms that are not clear may prove problematic and sometimes even costly when you and your significant other divorce. You will find that it will be difficult for you to prove just what you were trying to say is what is said. In fact in many cases it is found that sentences may have more than one meaning. Such will become even more difficult to deal with, and you may end up being written off. A good lawyer will ensure that the document is as clear as possible and has as few difficult terms and un-understandable words as possible.
Lawyers who have experience in pre-nuptials will be very beneficial when it comes to writing down a prenup. They can tell you the various state laws that govern marriage. They will be able to give you more information on what can and cannot apply in the prenup you are writing. They will also be able to get the documents with the laws so you can be able to read yourselves. His is something you two could not have thought of or done as fast. They are also very good and handy when you do not have time to read the laws.
A lawyer for a prenuptial agreement will also give each of you separate legal advice, and you will, therefore, be able to craft a clear document that is understood by both of you. It will create a sense of satisfaction as none of you will feel taken advantage of. For this reason and to avoid bias, both of you should get your own lawyers.